Marriages are usually arranged by parents in our culture. It is because they have already seen a great deal of the world and have better wisdom than their wards. Parents can negotiate among themselves for a match on a sound footing than their wards. Marriage is a very serious social contract which can not be left to the sentimentalism of the youngsters. There is a flaw in the arranged marriages. Boy and girl don't have mental compatibility. Their temperaments may collide as they don't know each other. In love marriages, both know each other well and know each others' minds. There is a mental and temperamental comaptibilty between the prospective weds. However ,if the youth is allowed to take marriages' decisions, it may lead to serious consequences. Being unripe in wordly wisdom, the young people can not weigh the pros and cons of the decision. Both sides have strong arguments. Can you argue and counter argue on this issue?
Arzoo, Fazl ur Rahman, Annas khan and 1 more
I am agree with yashaar Ali shah.Also my opinion about marraige is arrange marriage is batter than love marriage because our parents always select best thing for us.if parents can select best thing for us than they can dafinatly select best person for us.
Sun, May 19, 2019
marriage is the beginning of family and is a life long commitment the opportunity to grow in selflessness you serve your wife and children marriage also designed for purity.......
Thu, May 16, 2019
I think that arrange marriages are better than love marriages because our parents know much more than us and they never made wrong decision for their children .As in love marriages boy and a girl sometime decide to have a relation for temporary feelins and after sometime or marriage they do not understand each other because their mind sets are different so they quarrel with each other and their relation ends . While in arrange marriage parents must ask their children before finalling their marriage and do not impose their decision on a girl or boy .
Sat, Dec 8, 2018
Marriage is serious issue of youth and i agree with all of you . Now a days our youth want to take their own decisions about their life patners.But my openion that parents should makes decisions for their childrens, but if a child knows that his parents have not taken the right decision for him, then he should explain his parents and tell them that this is not right and parents should also value their point of view and look at their decision too if their child's decision is correct then his/her parents obey their child's decision . But some of the parents do not take this thing seriously and force their children that they marry their wishes .But when their children marry on their wishes, the boy and the girl are cannot understands each other and that is why they quarrel , due to which the relationship ends or gets spoiled. But sometimes love marriages were not successful too because boy and the girl decide to marry but they do not know that they can not live with each other for whole life , they are not suitable for each other, due to which they days are quarrel or fight each other day after day at the end the relationship is spoil .
It is essential for successful weddings that some times one some times other life partner will have to compromise and will have to work with patience and in this way life will be happier and also and others also get lessons from this thing.It is only the thing which makes our marriages successful either that is arrange or love marriage compromise and patience is very important to makes the strong relationships .
Regards:Attia liaqat
Sun, Dec 2, 2018
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