Arranged marriages break up because of tempramental incompatibility

Arranged Marriage Vs Love Marriage both sides have valid arguments. The main criticism of love marriages is that there is often a high rate of divorce which is not the case in arranged marriages because of the involvement of parents and other relatives in times of trouble. I believe that a man an... more

by Yashaar Ali Shah

 

You have to love someone to let them go free, once you realize that it's not working. (that's why... more

by AbdulRehman

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The ground reality is that most love marriages don't work simply because both people were not in ... more

by Yashaar Ali Shah

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Yeah I agree but that doesn't mean that parents should take control of the situation.

by AbdulRehman

 

Agreed !!! As I said before, I believe that the decision of when and whom to marry should be made... more

by Yashaar Ali Shah

 

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Arzoo, Fazl ur Rahman, Annas khan and 1 more

I stand with love arrange marriages

by Waqar Shah

First of all I would like to thank you for giving me a new word "ward" it was alien to me. Defi... more

 

As you said that marriage should take place by the agreement of both parents and wards then why y... more

by Tayyaba Khan

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Well, I didn't said that I stand with love marriage, rather I have said that I stand with love ar... more

by Waqar Shah

 

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by Rustam

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Mohsin nawaz jadoon

Noor Fatima

To get marry is one of the substantial things we have to come across at some point in our lives. Marriage can lead you a happy life or may ends up complete misery depends upon what sort of decisions you make regarding it. Since the name indicates "Love" marriages, might have been framed with Lov... more

by Khuzaima Khan

 

Yes, nowadays love is mostly just a materialistic facade, but that does not mean that love is ext... more

by Yashaar Ali Shah

 

Well, exceptions are always there. But don't consider rarity a reality. Media is no doubt inflict... more

by Khuzaima Khan

 

Fair Enough... I agree with most of what you have said, the risks of a failed marriage are far mo... more

by Yashaar Ali Shah

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Love is both defiled and disillusioned but the fact remains there. Nobody in contemporary knows w... more

by Khuzaima Khan

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Yes, Compromises and Sacrifices are the basis for any marriage, every couple has to be willing to... more

by Yashaar Ali Shah

 

No, i didn't say anything about imposed decisions. You didn't get my point. What i meant is that ... more

by Khuzaima Khan

 

First of all let me just clear the misconception that I am advocating for love marriage. I am not... more

by Yashaar Ali Shah

 

Well, now things are more acceptable in 'politely' refusing your parents in stead of 'opposing' t... more

by Khuzaima Khan

 

"Politely" Refusing is actually the same thing as opposing your parents decision. I for one would... more

by Yashaar Ali Shah

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Annas khan

Marriage is the intimate union and equal partnership of a man and a woman . There are two types of marriage i.e arrange and love marriage. In my opinion I think that arrange marriage is better than love marriage because it is according to our religious and agreements of families are involved . B... more

by Faiza nazir

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Annas khan

Yashaar Ali Shah

I agree that marriage is a very serious contract. Actually marriage is not just a union of two people but also two familes.you don't marry just a person,you marry his/her bad and good sides as well. In my point of view Arrange marriages seem more successful because there is an element of being pe... more

by Ambreen Nazir

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Annas khan

Yashaar Ali Shah

Both the love and the arranged marriages have their merits as well as demerits and marriage is a decision of lifetime. Though families are involved in most of the marriages, yet it’s the couple who has to live together for lifetime. So, the decision to choose life partner should be left to the in... more

by Iqra Mushtaq

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Yashaar Ali Shah

These days Love Marriage And Arrange Marriage both result 50-50. No one knows whether it will be successful or unsuccessful. The Benefit of Love Marriage, it helps to understand each other before marriage while in arrange marriage, it makes our parents happy but not sure for how long. Here I will... more

by Annas khan

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Yashaar Ali Shah

Marriage is an important as well as serious social contract.Being a Pakistani and a Muslim, in my opinion arrange marriages are more preferable.In an arrange marriage ,wife tends to be more understanding towards husband and family which results in a successful marriage life and it is a fact that ... more

by Soma saaed

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Annas khan

I believe that arrange marriage is the best because it is arranged by our parents and it our duty to respect our parents and it is our duty to obey them. Our parents never think bad for us and they always take care of us and our well being.

by Fazl ur Rahman

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Annas khan

I am in favour of love arrange marriges, because it is a matter of fact that what ever decision is taken it is not just about two persons, it includes the whole family ! Parents should ask for their childs will and involve the acceptance of their children as they are the one's who will live toge... more

by Aiman

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Annas khan

Well, in my point of view marriage is that part of an individual life through which it depends the whole future of the individual. Decisions should be made very seriously, keenly and strongly in this case after thinking alot because after it no body can blame each other. I feel like that Decision... more

by Awais Jadoon Eng

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Annas khan

I agree with the notion that marriage is a very serious social contract which can not be left to the sentimentalism of the youngsters. In Pakistan marriages are usually arranged by parents and elders of their family they know their children since birth and they know what is good for their childre... more

by sawaira Noor

 

I agree with with all of you that marriage is serious social contract .I think both the marriage... more

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To begin with the idea that parents know better than their children and want the best for them is flawed. One should not forget that forced child marriages and abusive marriages are the offshoots of harbouring such mentality. One of the major problems that the institution of marriage suffers from... more

by AbdulRehman (Eng 2)

 

You're putting all the blame on the parents when in fact the problem is with all parties. I belie... more

by Yashaar Ali Shah

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Oh! I strongly object to the idea that intentions of parents should not be questioned. Parents to... more

by AbdulRehman

 

Well you're looking at it from the wrong point of view Bro, Parents are also human and thus they ... more

by Yashaar Ali Shah

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Annas khan

Marriage a serious social contract Yes compatibility is more important most importantly mental compatibility in ever relationship but I am with the favour of arranged marriages because in arranged marriages your parents , family is decided to who me you want to spend your life and I think it's g... more

by Noor Fatima

 

As you said that you are in the favour of arrange marriages, because parents are more experienced... more

by Waqar Shah

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Agree

 

Well , we belongs to the 21st century generation and this age is the experimental age where we le... more

by Noor Fatima

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You mean, there are many cases in which love marriages are failed, and due to which no body shoul... more

by Waqar Shah

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Yes you are very right that marriage should be done by mutual consolation with parents and their ... more

by Noor Fatima

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I am in favour of arrange marriages. Our parents know better than us .In our society marriages are done by our elders and it's our duty to obey their commands. Arrange marriages are successful than love marriages. In love marriages there may result in divorce . There are two relations in the w... more

by Rustam

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In my point of view, arranged marriages are more successfull than love marriages. And its because they are based on the decisions of elders of the family as they have more wisdom and are more experienced. One the other hand in a love marriage the young ones can' t see the other ones character and... more

by Sania sadiq

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Assalamo alaikum to all !my opinion is that arrange marriage is better than love marriage because it is according to the wish of parents and they are experienced people and they know how to survive in a life .

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I don’t think so that arrange marriages arranged by parents are always against their children will. Most of the matches made by parents involves the wishes of their wards also. But still sometimes the relation broke up. Parents have a huge experience of life and I think they always decide good f... more

by Muqaddas Bibi

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First of all i agree with the fact that marriage is a very serious contract and i also believes that this crucial decision shouldn't be held over to unconscious and inexperienced youth because i believe that the wards are usually trying to take permanent decision on temporary feelings yes i call ... more

by umar farooq

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Marriages are usually arranged by parents in our culture. I'm in favour of arrange marriage because the reason is the family support and our parents can decide better for us that is what's good and what's bad for us. Also, in our society people usually prefer arrange marriages because arrange mar... more

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Marriage is a serious social contract. Yes compatibility is most important in every relationship. Yes i am in the favour of arranged marriages because in arranged marriages your parents, family is decided to who me want to spend your life.In love marriages i have seen couples cant stable for a ... more

by Areej Tariq from BS EnglishIII

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Asslam-o-alikum! Actually marriage is a social contract between the individuals and its not for some days but for the whole life.It demands commitment, compromise and sacrifice . In our society if we look around we come to know that the ratio of arrange marriages is greater than the ratio of lov... more

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no one could endure you so one must always be happy with the decision of their parents and as we see around in our society that arrange marriages are more successful than that of loved ones ,exceptionals are there.As the tutor talked about metal compatibility,so the couple will get compatible wit... more

by Ayesha

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Although both arranged marriages and loved marriage in the developed society is a good thing but here the situation quite diverts because in this society love is not thought be a good choice before you gonna to be married. Therefore the idea of arrange marriage is very good because that everythin... more

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Regarding this great issue of the day i would like to share my opinion here.

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Do believe that your PARENTS are your biggest well wisher they will never ever think of anything wrong for you. Whatever they decide for you is BEST and will be good for you ... In my opinion arrange marriages are better than loved ones. Marriage is a life time commitment between two different ... more

by Numera Saghir

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Marriage are usually arranged by parents in our culture . Yeah I am in the favour of arrange marriage.In my opinion I am in favour of the arrange marriage and the reason is the family support I known most of the people will disagree to it but I think so if you have parents support so you are stro... more

by Sham.sun.nisa

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Yeah i am in the favour of arrange marriages.because our parents can decide better for us that what is good and what is bad for us.In our society peoples usually prefer arrange marriages because arrange marriges more successful than love marriages .and our parents also havemore experienced of li... more

by Noor ul ain Eng Dep

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Love or arrange marriage ?One of main issue with respect to today’s generation .Regarding that issue I would say that no doubt marriage is an important event in ones life .So decision about ones life should not be solely leaved on parents or their kids . We belong to Islamic society where shar... more

by Shabana Khattak

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Yes, I am in the favour of arrange marriages but arrange marriges are good in some societies and bad in some societies. In some societies they are very good beacuse it is following the religous customs and its the sign of honour and respect to the families involved and it is the culture of the co... more

by Hira afsar

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Marriage is a life-long commitment. So, selecting life partner should be in one’s own hands.Love is the base for any marriage. In love marriages, there will be no question on whether love happens or not.In Love marriages, couple knew each other very well and most probably they already understood ... more

by Haider

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Marriage is a life-long commitment. So, selecting life partner should be in one’s own hands.Love is the base for any marriage. In love marriages, there will be no question on whether love happens or not.In Love marriages, couple knew each other very well and most probably they already understood ... more

by Haider

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Both arranged and love marriage has pros and cons .But if I have to favour one I would go with the arrange marriage along with the some conditions only then I think I repeat I think that the chances of survival of marita life increases. If the wards give the right of selection life partner for... more

by Madiha khan

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Yes i m in favor of arrange marriges this obstinate problem needs serious concern. The ratio of successful arrange marriages is more than the love marriages. Especially in our regions ot is never acceptable. The parents have experienced the world so they better know how to tackle this issue rathe... more

by Rimsha Hafeez

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I do believe in arrange marriages! It do depends on the conditions some time i could favor love marriagws too but very often i might donthst. This obstinate issue is really very problematic and needs serious concern. The ratio of successfull arrange marriages is more than love marriages... more

by Rimsha Hafeez

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Marriages are like a bond , not between two people but between two families . One wrong decision can destroy two families . I am not in favour of love marriage or arrange marriage individually because I have observed both cases very closely . I think before taking the decision of their wards marr... more

by Aqsa Faraz

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Mostly over culture and parents allow arranged marriages not love marriages .This is due to the fact that young lads pass time with many girls ,steal their hearts, catch their attention ,make them fall in love with them and at last ,these boys just stab the girls .Only few of them faithful and si... more

by Marrium Ghazi

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Marriage is a beautiful relation in the world. The only relation made first by our Almighty Allah and prior to every other relation. Usually ,in our society marriages are arranged by our parents . Daughters are bound to relations that they have to move according to their family .Although son i... more

by Mehmoona

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In my opinion i am in favour of the arrange marriage and the reason is the family support i know most of the people will disagree to it but i think that if you have parents support so you are strong every one in your in-laws will respect you because there is someone behind you if some mishaps eve... more

by Muazzama khan

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Marriage is very important social institution. The criteria for choosing the partner is different. If parents choose partner for child it is referred as arrange marriage while in love marriage individual choose their own partner. From my point of view in this debate I am not totally favouring a l... more

by Maryam Jadoon

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Yes I am in favour of love marriages....Ohhh now I have spoken such words to whom our society never gets agreed.I keenly observed it and think over it why is it so,than I understand parents wants their children to be their obedient one and marry those girlz or boys which their parents their paren... more

by Kainat

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Marriage is an important social institution. Every individual wants to have a perfect match. In today's society most of the people were in favour of love marriage. As marriages are usually arranged by parents in our culture because parents have an exposure and experience of life. Parents arrange ... more

by Anisa Shafiq

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Marriage is kinda bond between two individuals which becomes stronger with understanding, compromise and sacrifice. Well my point of view in this debate isn't totally favouring a love marriage or arrange marriage because I have seen many couples in both cases who breaks up soon after their marri... more

by Zarmeena Sajjad (BS chemistry |||)

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Yes,I am agree with the given statement that arrange marriages break up because of tempramental incompatibility.one thing I want to share is that in modern era mostly people have their own ecpectations from their future partner so if they married by the choice of their parents then who is respons... more

by Iqra Iqbal

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Marriages are decided in heaven but celebrated on earth. I am in favor of love marriages ,though arrange marriages are given more respect because of social acceptance . I think that both love and arrange marriages are adorable until and unless there is mental compatibility and temperamental comp... more

by Aleeza

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I am in the favor of arrange marriage . As marriage is a serious social contract . So I am.against the heading of debate that " arranged maariages breakup because of tempramental incompatibility". In my opinion it is good that our parents decides aboit whom we should marry as they know better th... more

by Ramsha Khalid English lll

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I am in favor of arrange marriage

by Tayyaba Khan

I am against the heading of debate, as according to me parents are the one who grew you up from a... more

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I'm agree with Noor Fatima statement. And I myself personally favour with arrange marriage because usually I have seen in love marriage they can't stable for long time. And our society does not accept this kind of thing. It is considered bad. And in arrange marriage our parents takes decisions f... more

by Hafsa English III

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Marriages a very serious and sensitive issue. It is an agreement not only between two peoples but 2 families. Let me start from the beginning, parents were incharge of their children's marriage, they were just told that this person is going to be your future partner and the wards ofcourse cannot ... more

by Mohsin nawaz jadoon

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Marriage .. A serious social contract

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I am Favou of arrange marriages because In my opinion I am favor of arrange marriages because Mostly over culture and parents allow arranged

by Marrium Ghazi

 

I don't agree with you because parents implies thier choice on children's but thier children are ... more

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